Whither The End Of CNY Celebrations?

Year after year, moons after moons, the festivities of the annual Chinese or Lunar New Year are celebrated with laughter (could it be due to the large doses of alcoholic beverages?) and merriment the world over. Traditionally served by the Chinese culture, the festivities are celebrated by all, irrespective whether they are Buddhists or Christians, as it is fundamentally a cultural celebration. That's the greatness of being a Chinese, culture being one of the most important aspects.

During these festivities, family and friends join in to add to the laughter and merriment. Friends and acquitances vary in degree of bonding to oneself. Friends being those you can depend upon to provide a listening ear (not only to borrow money) when you're down. Friends being those who don't feel obliged to accompany you during your moments of sorrow or instances of happiness. Acquitances being those who give a myriad of excuses when you need their company the most. Acquitances being those who work great together but once out of the work environment, go far away to their own respective corners of the world to hibernate before the next work day arrives after a brief sojourn of a thousand jumping sheeps on the bed.

Family members are those connected by blood relations. A relation that cannot be spliced by choice. A relation that sticks together with you until the time you leave the earth for the heavens (if it exists). A relation that you cannot erase from the family tree. As they say, blood is thicker than water. Well, what do you expect? There's plenty of plasma and other components that makes the fluid of life what it is.

Lunar New Year celebrations begin with the receipt of red packets from your parents, relatives and friends when you're young and single. In the later stages of life when you're married, you're required to depart with cash to the younger ones who have not yet settled down. However, once you start having kids, you may 'recover' some of your dearly departed cash. That's how the world order works or at least how we make it out to be.

The crunch of life begins when you've arrived at mid-age. At this period of time, relatives may be 'going off' in a hurried manner as some may have reached their 60s or somewhere later than that. For some, relatives and friends could be departing to the netherworld earlier than expected. It is during the period of festivities that their presence could be sorely missed. At this point, we're rendered to moments of melancholy under the influence of the bright full moon.

In these moments of melancholy, we're driven back to the times when we were younger and everyone was very much alive. When we used to receive red packets after a handshake, wishing each other 'Happy New Year'. This 'period' of happiness often brings us back to the time when we were 15 years old or younger. When neither care or worry affected us, as we light up fireworks and firecrackers for once in a year.

There will come a time when we're truly bereft of the living aged ones who have accompanied us on our life journey. When that time comes, we will depend on the younger ones to humour and entertain us, as we march through this procession of Life. Having said that, cherish your moments of celebration for the new year as anything can happen before the next lunar new year arrives...